You need to learn the rules first, then you figure out when and how to break them. The point of the post, though, is simply that you have to develop the mental flexibility to even consider breaking the rules. Surprisingly few people will even consider the option. Some people, when driving their bleeding child to the emergency room, would loop around an extra nine city blocks rather than drive the wrong way up one visibly empty one-way street. In general, you shouldn't drive the wrong way on a one-way street. But there are times when it's appropriate.
I love my wife, and sometimes I'm baffled at how we ever got together. She's a total hall monitor and I'm a happy criminal. Sometimes her reluctance keeps me out of trouble and sometimes it's just a drag. The look in her eyes when I occasionally propose a major rule-breaking could be described as 'terror.' She would never consider walking through the 'Employees Only' door. She thinks there is something immoral about lying to a Customs agent. She was mortified when I used a single-use coupon over and over again at REI. (Screw those hippies.)
Most rules at least made sense when they were first created. But the point is to think like a criminal.
If you want an interesting book on a somewhat related note, I'd give five stars to 'A Burglar's Guide to the City' by Geoff Manaugh. It's a book about architecture from a criminal's perspective. It is not at all a how-to. It is somewhat wandering and philosophical, and well written.
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