
Originally Posted by
apamburn
I suspect that perhaps Judo, especially taught at a place that doesn't market itself or orient itself specifically towards "self defense" or MMA or fighting, may not be the best "fighting" discipline.
Judo doesn't give you as many tools as most striking arts, but the tools that it gives you are very useful. Any system SHOULD provide those tools but the reality is most simply don't.
The sum is that I didn't realize how unprepared, or uneducated, I was, and how much things that I previously would have dismissed as minor details matter. All that, and I don't consider myself to have an inflated view of myself - I certainly didn't go into this thinking I knew anything at all, but it has been humbling all the same.
Humbling is a good thing. It's a good way to find your limitations and motivate you to overcome them.
A few of my thoughts follow from the last few weeks:
1. This is awkward. The movements, figuring out how to position my body and that of the other person, falling, landing, everything. Part of what I'm learning is just how to move my body.
Movement will improve and this will help you with everything else you do, including with a gun.
2. This reminds me of learning to dance - something I'm also not very good at. Timing, foot movement, movement of multiple parts of my body, coordination with my partner's body, hip movement, awkwardness (refer to point 1).
3. Moving in a bunch of ways at the same time, or at least in coordination, even with a willing and unresistant partner, is hard.
Fighting, and martial training, is multitasking and no one does it well. Over time as you carve the right grooves into the brain, those separate actions become single actions, and you no longer have to focus on what YOU are doing. With enough time, you won't have to THINK about what you're doing but you'll simply FEEL what needs to be done. Judo, and any system that is clinch/grappling range, develops this much faster than systems that focus on punching range. That frees up the brain space to focus on what the other guy is doing.
4. Minute details matter. How and where you put your feet and hips and legs and arms, or where you grip / grab, how you twist, etc make a big difference in what happens in ways that I guess I didn't expect, or didn't think about.
Yes. But also, once you've built some skill/experience, these small details become part of you and you don't have to think about them. But they ARE really important. This is not a propeller head thing, IMO, but the little details of HOW YOU MOVE are more important than any of the techniques. Techniques just illustrate good principles.
5. Strength / size / weight is a big deal. So is decisive action and intent and mastery of technique.
It always matters. And no matter how good you are, you'd be better if you were stronger. But skill and experience make a big difference. A bigger guy is always dangerous and no matter what your skill, if you make a mistake the stronger guy will capitalize on it. But skill and experience can beat strength (though it may take an investment of time in developing that skill that is unreasonable for most). There's no shortcut...always push yourself to get stronger AND build greater skill.
Judo, after all, is one of those systems that is really designed for the smaller, weaker guy to beat the bigger guy. While modern Olympic Judo is great at building strength and fitness, in many ways it has devolved into a muscle game. I think it's accurate to say that it's a different system from the original Judo that Kano developed (which really was just a streamlined branch of Jujutsu). None of those throws were muscle dependent as many are today, and that is a shame. Yes, you can throw a much bigger, stronger guy with no muscle. You just have to be really frickin good. What can I say? It's hard.
Actually, it's supposed to be SOFT. Which is just hard to do.
6. If I were in a street fight with anyone, with even a modicum of competent instruction, in just about any marital art, and / or with a decisive mindset, I'd be fucked. No number of tools I carry can change that.
That will change. It just takes discipline, effort, and time.
7. Sparring makes you feel kind of exposed or naked: failures are laid bare for everyone - including yourself - to see. Even the basic task of pinning someone was and is sort of foreign to me. I just didn't even know how to approach, or where to start, or where to go.
That will change too. What is foreign now will become as familiar as a lover. I think fighting is the second most fun thing you can do with another body.
8. I don't want to look back - now that I know what I don't know, even if I were to change to a more useful or effective martial art, I don't think I want to ever stop.
Stick with it. You enjoy it and have some passion for it...dabbling is a good thing but I strongly believe you must pick ONE thing and become really good at it.
Any advice for me as I continue to learn?
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