Im very sorry for your loss. It sounds like you truly loved her and fougjt for her 24/7 which is rhe noblest love you could have for her. It also sound like she appreciated every minute of it. I work in healthcare and most healthcar providers are good people. But some are not and should be in a different field. Its also a highly competitive business. Im very glad you fought very hard to remind them that you and your wife were very important customers of their care.